If home is your safe space, consider yourself lucky. For victims of domestic + sexual violence, quarantine is their worst nightmare – a dream come true for abusers.
Advocacy groups show up to 300% increase in calls during quarantine. Crisis centers report a 50% rise in violent cases.
Leaving home is often the only escape for those in violent situations. Without that choice, they're in danger 24/7. Risk of victimization rises directly with lower financial wellbeing – a serious concern during Coronavirus shutdowns. Alcohol and drug use contribute to increased violence; both have risen as people staying home need not be sober for matters such as work and school. Mental health + past trauma can be factors for both survivors and perpetrators. Did you know boys who witness DV are twice as likely to abuse partners or children as adults – the same is true for girls but in the victim role?
Even if businesses begin reopening soon, stress levels will stay high, as people catch up on work, struggle financially, and readjust. Danger will not just disappear suddenly once most others begin enjoying privileges of freedom again. These people were in danger before lockdown, even more so during quarantine. The threat is not going away simply because life “goes back to normal” – violence is their normal.

Anyone can easily help interrupt the ideas that dismiss abusive behaviors. A huge issue in society is "victim-blaming." Abuse is always the offender’s fault. No excuses justify violence. Bystanders speaking up when others wave off abuse because the victim was “asking for it,” “had an attitude,” “dressed like that,” not only tells them their actions or words are not supported, but also shows survivors that they are supported and matter.
Knowing the warning signs of domestic, intimate partner, + sexual violence can make all the difference for those who cannot seek help for themselves. It is important to note abuse can be physical, emotional, mental, sexual, or economic. TIME, NPR, The New York Times, NBC, CNN, BCC, Fox News, + the United Nations all have reported on the extreme rise in DV/SV around the world since Coronavirus outbreak measures have gone into effect. Look out for red flags + indicators that could save lives.
I designed this comprehensive list to offer DV/SV hotlines in each American state + territory. If you try to contact a center but its line is busy or closed, the 24/7 National DV Hotline is 800-799-7233 (SAFE) / TTY 800-787-3224.
Alabama Coalition Against Domestic Violence
http://www.acadv.org/ 1-800-650-6522
Alaska Network on Domestic Violence & Sexual Assault
http://www.andvsa.org/ Kodiak Women’s Resource & Crisis Center: 1-888-486-3625
American Samoa Coalition Against Domestic & Sexual Violence
http://www.asalliance.co Local hotline: 699-4211
Arizona Coalition to End Sexual & Domestic Violence
http://www.azcadv.org/ Safe House: 1-888-269-9104
Arkansas Coalition Against Domestic Violence
http://www.thesafeplacearkansas.com The Safe Place: 888-554-2501
California Partnership to End Domestic Violence
http://www.cpedv.org/ 916-444-7163
Colorado: Violence Free Colorado
https://www.violencefreecolorado.org 888-778-7091
Connecticut Coalition Against Domestic Violence
http://www.ctcadv.org 888-774-2900
Delaware Coalition Against Domestic Violence
https://dcadv.org 302-422-8058
Florida Coalition Against Domestic Violence
http://www.fcadv.org 1-800-500-1119
Georgia Coalition Against Domestic Violence
http://www.gcadv.org 1-800-334-2836
Guam Coalition Against Sexual Assault & Family Violence
https://guamcoalition.org Victim Advocates Reaching Out, local hotline: 477-5552
Hawaii State Coalition Against Domestic Violence
https://www.hscadv.org 808-245-6362
Idaho Coalition Against Sexual & Domestic Violence
http://www.idvsa.org 1-800-669-3176
Illinois Coalition Against Domestic Violence
https://www.ilcadv.org 1-877-863-6338
Indiana Coalition Against Domestic Violence
http://www.icadvinc.org 800-332-7385
Iowa: Children & Families of Iowa DV Hotline
https://cfiowa.org 1-800-942-0333
https://www.icadv.org 1-800-770-1650
Kansas Coalition Against Sexual & Domestic Violence
https://www.kcsdv.org 888-363-2287
Kentucky: Center for Women & Families
https://www.thecenteronline.org 1-844-237-2331
Louisiana Coalition Against Domestic Violence
http://lcadv.org 1-888-411-1333
Maine Coalition to End Domestic Violence
https://www.mcedv.org 1-866-834-4357
Maryland Network Against Domestic Violence
http://mnadv.org Family Crisis Resource Center: 301-759-9244
Massachusetts: Jane Doe Inc – Coalition Against Sexual Assault & Domestic Violence
http://www.janedoe.org 1-877-785-2020
Michigan Coalition to End Domestic & Sexual Violence
https://mcedsv.org 1-888-383-2192, 855-VOICES4
Minnesota: Violence Free Minnesota (formerly MN Coalition for Battered Women)
https://www.vfmn.org 866-223-1111
Mississippi Coalition Against Domestic Violence
https://mcadv.org 1-800-898--3234
Missouri Coalition Against Domestic & Sexual Violence
http://www.mocadsv.org 573-634-4161
Montana Coalition Against Domestic & Sexual Violence
https://mcadsv.com 1-800-253-9811
Nebraska Coalition to End Sexual & Domestic Violence
http://www.nebraskacoalition.org 402-476-6256
Nevada: Legal Aid Center of Southern Nevada
https://www.lacsn.org/practice-areas/family-justice-project/domestic-violence/resources-for-victims-of-domestic-violence 1-800-486-7282, 1-800-500-1556
New Hampshire Coalition Against Domestic & Sexual Violence
https://www.nhcadsv.org 1-866-644-3574
New Jersey Coalition to End Domestic Violence
https://njcedv.org 800-572-7233
New Mexico Coalition Against Domestic Violence
https://www.safehousenm.org Safe House: 800-773-3645
New York State Coalition Against Domestic Violence
http://www.nyscadv.org 1-800-942-6906
North Carolina: Compass Center for Women & Families
https://compassctr.org 919-929-7122
North Dakota: Abused Adult Resource Center
https://www.abusedadultresourcecenter.com 1-866-341-7009
Northern Mariana Islands Coalition Against Domestic & Sexual Violence
https://www.nsvrc.org 670-234-5100
Ohio Domestic Violence Network
http://www.odvn.org 800-934-9840
Oklahoma Coalition Against Domestic Violence & Sexual Assault
http://www.ocadvsa.org 1-800-522-7233
Oregon Coalition Against Domestic & Sexual Violence
https://www.ocadsv.org 1-888-235-5333
Pennsylvania Coalition Against Domestic Violence
https://www.pcadv.org 1-800-932-4632
Puerto Rico: Paz Para Las Mujeres
https://pazparalamujer.org > Casa de Todos: 787-734-3132 / Hogar Nueva Mujer: 787-263-6473
Rhode Island Coalition Against Domestic Violence
http://www.ricadv.org/en/ 1-800-494-8100
South Carolina Coalition Against Domestic Violence & Sexual Assault
https://safepassagesc.org Safe Passage: 903-329-2800
South Dakota Network Against Family Violence & Sexual Assault
https://sdnafvsa.com 1-800-430-7233
Tennessee Coalition to End Domestic & Sexual Violence
https://www.tncoalition.org 1-800-356-6767
Texas: The Family Place
https://www.familyplace.org 214-941-1991
Utah Domestic Violence Coalition
https://www.udvc.org 1-800-897-5465
Vermont Network Against Domestic & Sexual Violence
https://vtnetwork.org 800-228-7395
Virgin Islands: Women’s Coalition of St. Croix
http://www.wcstx.org 340-773-9272
Virginia Sexual & Domestic Violence Action Alliance
http://www.vsdvalliance.org 1-800-838-8238
Washington State Coalition Against Domestic Violence
https://wscadv.org 1-800-562-6025
West Virginia Women’s Resource Center
http://www.wrcwv.org 304-255-2559
Wisconsin: End Domestic Abuse Wisconsin
https://familypeacecenter.org Sojourner Family Peace Center: 414-933-2722
Wyoming Coalition Against Domestic Violence & Sexual Assault
https://www.wyomingdvsa.org 800-990-3877, 1-844-264-8080
Warning Signs of Domestic Abuse. By WebMD.
GLOBAL Resources for Outside of the U.S.:
Helping Someone After Rape or Sexual Assault: https://www.thecenteronline.org/get-help/friends-family/help/
Comprehensive Women's Guide to Cyber Safety in 2022:
Financial Abuse and How to Identify:
Rebuilding Your Finances After Financial Abuse:
Financial Literacy Guide for Women
“She Said." This true story-based song was created to empower and resonate with survivors of sexual violence. Artists have teamed up with Zoe Healing Center of Oklahoma City & Center for Violence Prevention in Jackson, MS, to donate 20% of all relevant proceeds to these organizations, in their efforts to help survivors find help, hope, and peace. By Alex Carr of NVision.
Impact of Economic Stress on Domestic Violence. By Claire Renzetti and Vivian Larkin.
Why Do People Blame the Victim? By David B. Feldman, Ph.D.
Safety Planning When Confined With Abuser, by Maryland Network ADV:
Lethality Assessment
General Statistics + Facts Sheets
https://www.criminalattorneycolumbus.com/blog/2020/01/a-guide-to-domestic-violence-and-getting-help/
Increase in Domestic Violence Feared During Virus Lockdown. By Ina Fried for Axios.
Loads of additional information + resources: https://www.womenshealth.gov/relationships-and-safety
Hannah Jacole
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